I hope it was worth it!!!!

Does office romance survive or last or even worth it????

I am asking because it seems like in each job that I seem to get there is always office romance

Some are married and frankly couldnt careless about how their spouses feel (I am assuming)

The minute you approach a woman and you have a ring on your ring finger telling her how much you love her and are the man to love her forever, how sincere are you????

To the woman who is being approached by the married man and you can see the ring on his finger, but choose to ignore it and you hand him your number, what are your intentions???

Maybe its just to be friends I assume…..

Maybe its so that he can buy you things such as toiletries, to wine and dine you or maybe to buy you lingerie……..

How does he know your size, let alone your taste in lingerie??

You told him…….which is all and fair but are you not taunting him or insinuating that its ok for you to take it to another level???

Did you stop to consider that this person does have a ring on his finger and chances are there is a wife and maybe kids waiting for him at home

The money that he should be spending on building his home, he is now spending it on you…….

As the cheating husband, why did you go and raise your wife’s hopes that you love her and will be faithful to her and only her

Why didnt you leave her to be with a man who will promise those things and be there for her if you cant????

Did you ever stop to think that your wife too is more than capable of doing exactly what you are doing and she wont brag about it as you would

So in other words you will never know until she tells you or someone else who wants to hurt you as the husband

It even gets worse when you have another child outside the marriage, now this woman whom you call your wife must now accept this child because she loves you

What if she cant have children, have you now not said I dont care……. but hey it doesnt affect you so long as you had your two minute fun

You as a wife you go and have another child with a married man simply because your husband is not satisfying you anymore

How many lives are you ruining simply because you couldnt be faithful to the man you had said yes I do to doesnt satisfy you anymore

It gets even worse when the woman you were cheating with now wants more out of this such as commitment to the extent that she is willing to go and expose you because you see she has evidence

She doesnt like the fact that you have a family and are so inlove with your wife so she just has to ruin it by exposing the secret photos she was taking or heaven forbid she is pregnant and the DNA says its 99.9% that he/she is your husband’s child

Something which started off as innocent such as flirting could lead to bad endings

Is that office romance worth it because in the end the truth will eventually come out and ruin not only your reputation, possibly your marriage or better yet your career…….heaven forbid your life because there are deadly diseases that you failed to think for that during your moment of lust

But hey its a selfish decision you decided to take and now you will have to live with it taking down innocent people who had nothing to do with your moment of “fun”.